Thanks for stopping by! My laptop is all screwed up too, and crashing is probably lurking right around the corner. You described my ex husband to the T. He really doesn't see any fault within himself and it becomes very obvious when you listen to him talk and explain things. Everyone just stares at him in disbelief. As for my son, we actually live with my parents right now, so they see him all the time. My sister says that it's because they've already been disciplinaries with us, and now that they are grandparents, they feel that it's no longer their job...but that doesnt help me out because I can't seem to discipline him either because they interfere.